Friday, January 28, 2011

The (anti-) Social Media? (part I)


Some people might be—or it’s just me-- fed up with Facebook, as it gives much trouble in life unexpectedly. It is likely overwhelming to see people update their what–so-called-important-status of “Binun apdet status apahh” –and hoping their status to be liked—(and for God sake someone really hits the LIKE button). Givin' me more stressful day when a friend tagging ugly faces of us and even pinning our name to a photo that we have no idea with. Ecstatically, we’d love to see notifications poop us in the home page –and voila!--here we are “the-who-the-hell-are-you –times 22. commented a photo of you. Well there are may be a lil improvement since FB finally parallelizing the notifs to sum up the amount. But still, it bugs me. Okay if you got no prob with that, hear this out.

Relationship status? Surprise! Another crisis emerges. As we can’t count people judge someone’s status by their “in relationship” label in facebook—wild guessing “oh, there’s no relationship status—okay I’ll advance her” the heat is unbearable. “Wow single—I might got a opportunity” In fact, some friends of mine propose “single” as their life vision and marriage is so out of option. Single does not always mean available. May be some people are comfortable to reveal their personal information, who knows? It’s complicated? “Wow—did someone’s just had a fight—will they reconcile?” Trespassing into someone’s life is now really a pop culture, hitherto. Thanks to Mark Zuckerberg, who may be a stranger to the extent of: “privacy is classy.”  Facebook glorious vision is a networking a social web is truly peace of crap. In fact, from 800 old acquaintances I just connect frequently with less than 20% people in my friendlists. And I really loathe facebook chat application with all the devils in me— as it causes misunderstanding with my friends I try to work it. “Eh tak chat kok diem aja” “hah? Yang mana?” sounds familiar?

    Ok personally, I don’t really have a problem with that—I am a people person—outgoing—I don’t mind with the idea of exchanging personal information. The nuisance thing is--- bigotry really pisses me off. Not that I am anti-God or something, the idea of measuring someone’s faith with “THEIR OWN BELIEF and degree of FAITH” by commenting on someone’s status is truly unbearably invading my space.  Truth is if they really are  God’s person(or task force---?), why bother wasting their time to policing other person – even may be the angels who are noting my ‘status’ pissed of someone’s hijacking their workloads!
         Why am I complaining? ‘Just go deactivate your account—go check your privacy botton.’ I know such assumption might sparks out while you reading this. My answer is: I did deactivate.  Except things I wrote above, some people really need to see my account to check that whether I 'd died or not. No hard feeling, but I’m still alive, bitches!